JaggedJimmyJay wrote: ↑Fri Sep 17, 2021 8:57 pm
NotAnAxehole wrote: ↑Fri Sep 17, 2021 8:48 pm
If my interpretations meant anything, I would be less lazy about consuming information.
Your interpretations mean things. I am taking them into consideration. If you want to know why there may be a tendency for some people to discount your contributions, then you need to know that it's not some "lack of clout".
People tune you out if they feel you are talking down to them, belittling their play, belittling their entire site culture, and treating them like they're too stupid to breathe.
If you don't intend to come across that way, then you should be made aware that it often seems that way. Treat folks with respect and you're going to get more of it too.
I mean we don't generally agree on causation of gameplay related behavior, but we do generally agree on gameplay style. Also, you have to consider that integration is difficult and fails for a lot of people who try new sites, including this one. There is a strategic component to my madness and I try to be as respectful as possible all things considered.
"People tune you out if they feel you are talking down to them, belittling their play, belittling their entire site culture, and treating them like they're too stupid to breathe."
I think this is filled with half-truths, in the sense that I don't get the impression that most people see me as being malicious, or over time understand enough to dismiss some things that I say. Part of it is that people generally say "Axehole is anti-town" and what they mean by that is "I am pro-town and axehole is anti-town". When I say "JJJ is 5th mafia" I could very well mean "NAA is also pro-mafia". It's a bit of a dry style of approaching topics which I find to be entertaining.
Also, if you're talking about Ilario specifically, then I have no defense for myself. (I felt like this went without saying given the above point I just made, but I feel in this case it's important to mention)
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